ok playing as a renegade character and having beat the game once. Looking to beat it again but what dialog choices do i need to have me invite her up to my cabin. Are her choices tied to me being renegade or paragon?
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I just talked to her between each mission (Anything I should know about the crew?) on what was a mostly paragon playthrough. Eventually she came up for dinner and promised to feed my fish while she was away...
I don't think it matters whether you go Paragon or Renegade, but you do have to do a few things. Just as CitizenThom said, make sure you talk to her in between missions and get the point where you have dinner with her. Then when you do the Suicide Mission you have to make sure she survives and the only way you rescue her is to proceed directly to the Omega 4 Relay right after the crew are taken by the Collectors. (If you do at least one mission after the Collectors take the crew, Kelly will die) After the mission is over and you survive you talk to her again and you should be able to invite her up to your cabin.
One more thing, you cannot be in any relationship with any crew member if you want to romance Kelly.