As a middle ground solution, I support a welfare toggle for custom/private games for FN players like yourself. Why don't you ask for that instead?
I don't think that it's fair to change public games, though.
While I still think it should be removed altogether, what you're suggesting is a great idea. Very good idea!
There should be a lot more options for custom games.
What drives me crazy in the endgame is the game's selection of the worst-performing players to spawn before the better performers when there are too few spawns left.
3 people dead, and only 2 spawns? The worst two will spawn (based on in-game kdr.) It's irrelevant who died first. Horrible programming decision.